John, sharing this kind of very personal, emotional information on a forum is a courageous thing to do. The only thing I can do is offer you my biggest possible cyber support. I do believe that in the end all will end well. BIG HUG :love::love::love::love::love:
Thanks Ray.
In the mean time I was invited by my friend (the stepfather) last Saturday eve and he gave me a lot of explanations about the how and why of it. So now I understand where it all comes from. And last night the stepson invited me for a "chat only". He wants to talk about what happened...